I read Hard Drive by James Wallace and Jim Erickson a couple years ago. It was written between Windows 3.1 and 95. Super interesting to read Microsoft history from the perspective of that time period. I loved it.
SQS, Azure Service Bus, RabbitMQ, ActiveMQ, QPID, etc… any message broker that provides the competing consumer pattern. though I’ll say having managed many of these message brokers myself, it’s definitely better paying for a managed service. They’re a nightmare when you start running into problems.
If you're using .NET I have to plug
https://particular.net/
Nservicebus from particular.net. It's great at abstracting away the underlying message broker and provides an opinionated way to build a distributed system.
.Net SRE here, please no. Take 5 minutes to learn your messaging bus SDK and messaging system instead of yoloing some library that you don't understand. It's really not that hard.
Also, ServiceControl, ServiceInsight and ServicePulse are inventions of developers who are clearly WinAdmins who don't know what modern DevOps is. If you want to use that, you are bad and should feel bad.