That is a very fine line to walk, and if you just appropriate that characteristic out of context you are asking for trouble. Steve Jobs was extremely skilled at what he did and for the most part kept the "moral high ground" and was fighting for what he himself had largely built.

Don't judge a CEO on their personal characteristics, judge them for what they do and stand for. The new CEO of Coca Cola said he needed to figure out how to get more people to drink Coke. Fuck him. There are a lot of CEOs who are not just really bad for their companies but really bad for the world. For the most part, I think Steve Jobs was ok and the world is better because of him. It is ok to stomp on toes but not simply for the sake of stomping on them.

There will be some really good female CEOs. I predict all of them will have actually built their own company.