I don't have diabetes, Scott Hanselman has diabetes. If everyone with "first world problems" followed your advice and shut up, how would we every hear about anything except AIDS, Malaria, or Gun Violence?
Which woman would speak up about diversity in conferences if the response was "Shut the fuck up and organize a conference."--Oh, wait...
if it depresses you 'daily', then go learn the computer science and make the algorithms you want to see.
otherwise, live your life and enjoy it. and please just shut the fuck up about how hard you've got it.